tumblr made up this bullstuff loveuality called demiloveuality where "you do not feel loveual attraction until you are in a relationship or deep emotional bond with the person."
no stop
Demiloveuality is not a loveuality on its own, it's part of the aloveuality spectrum. A concept that, surprisingly enough to a lot you people, exists outside of Tumblr. Just because it doesn't make sense to you doesn't mean it's not a reasonable thing to identify as. Because loveuality is not something you can see and isn't black and white, I understand why you might be skeptical about demiloveuality. People have a right to interpret their loveual feelings however you wish and I would say it's only justified to insult someone for it if they're clearly doing it to "fit in" with a crowd. For example, if someone identified as "demiheteroloveual" just so that they can fit in with the queer crowd, then I would have an issue with it. I just ask that you try to be a bit more open-minded to "non-standard" loveualities, such as aloveuality and panloveuality.
also i might be mistaken but i think someone on the forums is demi but i won't say who because i might be wrong and start a stuffstorm
What is even the point of creating entirely new loveualities?
Again, because loveuality is ambiguous and unique to everyone, some people may not feel that a loveuality describes them. For example, I've recently come out as aloveual-homoromantic, despite coming out as gay previously. I never really felt "gay" because I found neither gender
lovey per se, but I was attracted to one of my friends for a while. Now that I found a word that I feel describes myself better, I'm a lot more comfortable about myself. I'm not seeking attention, I'm just trying to describe myself.
i could care less if someone is nonbinary but you identify as polyamorous, grey-ace, grey-romantic polyloveual who’s attracted to people of any gender except men dont expect me to take you seriously
That's technically a contradiction so i hear you there
but if you said just "polyamorous, grey-ace, grey-romantic polyloveual" then i'd have to disagree with you
if you write on, say, your blog or facebook profile then that's your loveuality, then good for you, you're being specific
but telling people that is kind of difficult and i can understand why you feel that way
"i'm a gray aloveual! that means i only feel loveual attraction sometimes, which completely contradicts the aloveuality part!"
man it feels good to vent about tumblr.
now you're just being annoying
