then flipped the tables
i think the difference is you do it regularly
i'm certain you can't even hear the music at 5am unless you blast it inconsiderately at such an early time
don't just say "oh they're just small things you don't have to listen to them!" rather, "oh there's some criticism i should do better"
if you're not going to put in enough effort to a point in which you even don't care then don't bother