Can I just level with everyone here? He's 13, and he wants to visit Japan. When I discovered anime, I instantly wanted to travel to Japan like Setro said "for the anime". And then I did some reading on culture, manners, etiquette, economy and generally how people treated other people. I instantly realized that I would never be able to adapt to that environment, even if it was for a temporary outing. I know he said he wants to visit it later in life but will he even care/remember he wanted to do this? At all?