I've never understood why people take such a stance against love and research. There are so many things that are much more deserving of your time and anger, such as violence, animal rights, human rights, marijuana prohibition, pollution, war, the rich, political polarity, poverty, pharmaceutical companies, banks and lenders, racism, radical leaders, radical citizens...
I'm sure everyone can pick something from that list and agree it is infinitely more deserving of our time and energy compared to research. Controlling or judging other people's behavior based on personal standards is unfair and does not benefit either party.