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okay, story time, friends

last night my mom went on a drunken rampage, screaming at her boyfriend to move out, screaming at my brother to get a better job and his own apartment, throwing stuff around, stumbling down the stairs. I've never heard or seen her like this, so i was shivering with fear. My brother told me to wait it out and that he's dealt with it before.

I woke up this morning, and my mom called me upstairs. she said sorry and that if I told my dad that i would never be able to come over to her place again, as he would gain full custody. I said I wouldn't tell him. She said okay.

What the hell should I do? I can't alienate my own mother, but at the same time I can't keep this from my dad. Both would be forgeted up.

What do I do, forums? I've got no other consolation right now.


tell your mom to go to rehab


Ask your brother what to do/what he would do

Ask your brother what to do/what he would do

I did. He said this, verbatim:

"It's black and white. There's not much of a choice. You either forget things up by telling him or you keep things the same and don't tell him."

In your case I would just act like it never happened and move past it

is your dad a pretty chill dude?

if so i wouldn't mind swapping custody. Your mom scares me :c

Try to understand what your mother is going through. Be empathetic. My mother struggles with alcohol too and sometimes I fear that it will put a strain on their marriage (which I am very thankful is in-tact). However, if the problem persists, you might want to take further action, because it sounds like very self-destructive behavior to me.

The most important thing to do here is try and be supportive.
« Last Edit: June 28, 2014, 01:04:21 PM by Rally »

Try to understand what your mother is going through. Be empathetic. My mother struggles with alcohol too and sometimes I fear that it will put a strain on their marriage (which I am very thankful is in-tact). However, if the problem persists, you might want to take further action, because it sounds like very self-destructive behavior to me.

If it happens again i'm telling my dad, definitely.

is your dad a pretty chill dude?

if so i wouldn't mind swapping custody. Your mom scares me :c

he'd overreact and like, sue my mom or something. I don't know. something bad would happen.

tell your mom to go to rehab

This
If she hears it from her own son it will probably make her get some help.

If it happens again i'm telling my dad, definitely.

You should probably tell her this too. Not as a threat, but as a legitimate concern for her health and your own health.


stick it in her pooper

get a better mom
stick it in her pooper

can you guys please forget off? no seriously, just go forget yourselves. Get off the loving forums, and go outside.

can you guys please forget off? no seriously, just go forget yourselves. Get off the loving forums, and go outside.