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Author Topic: Is getting a 'gf' at the age of 14 worth it?  (Read 6955 times)

pik er up and stik it in herr pooper

pik er up and stik it in herr pooper

I thought Flipe was going to do that.

Relationships <18 rarely work out but you can give it a shot

As long as it isn't your sister, it's worth it.

don't expect it to have any depth or meaning

most women don't get serious about relationships until they've really matured, and only God knows when that happens  :cookieMonster:


actually, considering op's situation, I think he should go for it

just to get some experience

and if something nice comes from it, that'd be cool too.

Yes go for it.
You're not going to get any magical life long lovely wedded couple relationship out of it, but that's the same with most relationships. There's no reason for you not to get a gf at 14 if you're able to, experience is good to have.
As for not knowing how to kiss dw about it, that stuff comes naturally as you go into it, not to mention the girl probably wouldn't know much better anyway.
You should definitely not purposely avoid a relationship on the basis that "it wont mean anything/because too young" as that is a flat out stupid approach, if you were to avoid relationships because you don't know if they'd have meaning then you will never have a relationship, and as I said experience will do you good later on. Anyone that says "(i) dont have a gf because im still young and it wont mean anything" is just using it as an excuse.
And don't forget to send me pics.

No, unless you enjoy having you heart broken in a couple weeks...

Honestly, a girlfriend isn't really worth it half the time. But go for it.

It sounds to me that you need more experiences in your life. Who knows? Maybe a girlfriend will get you out of your little shell and you'll end up much more easy going, friendly, and social.
Just don't get clingy or weird with her. Recognize that it isn't a relationship that will last. You're young, date for the experience, not for a life-long partner. A lot of kids in my town think that their middle school relationship will last all the way to marriage. It's a joke.

Hell, some kids in my class got engaged in the 10th grade. That stuff is forgeted up.

Hell, some kids in my class got engaged in the 10th grade. That stuff is forgeted up.
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It sounds to me that you need more experiences in your life. Who knows? Maybe a girlfriend will get you out of your little shell and you'll end up much more easy going, friendly, and social.
All of my this, i got my gf a month ago and she just broke up with me.
And that one little month helped me realize that i should not be wasting my time on getting a girlfriend,but rather on loving about with my friends and family, and to study for tests and stuff.

No, wait till your sixteen so you can drive and hopefully have a job that gives you enough money to pay for movie and a dinner.

forget her right in the pusillanimous individual