Author Topic: Im stuck between a rock and a hard place.  (Read 930 times)

So, I live with my girlfriend and her parents. Her parents are crazy, but I can deal. Recently she went to warped tour, that concert where the metalheads and scene kids go. She crowd surfed, moshed, all that good stuff, but she didn't get to take me, so I was stuck at home playing fo3. I get a call from her while she's at her friends house, and they just got back from the concert and I want to know if she is OK. I call her, and she says she had a friend named chris who was there with her. She has cheated on me twice before, but I loved her so much I couldn't let go. Let me tell you, I do not trust her with anything unless she is in my line of sight. She has told me that she just held His hand in a mosh pit and she seen a couple of bands with him. What I want to know is should I believe her about it or no. If i do leave her, i have nowhere to move to, because my dad is an ass, my mom has passed away, and my grandma doesnt have enough money to even support herself. What do i do? Please no criticism BTW this is a serious topic.


You'd better just stick with your girlfriend until the boat sinks by itself. While the boat is sinking, begin to financially get yourself prepared for being kicked out.

start saving up enough money to get by on your own for a while and stick with the relationship for as long as it lasts
its not a pretty thing to do but its your only option besides moving back with your dad, and you must have your reason for not wanting that

I'd recommend searching for something that'll get you enough funds incase SHTF

this sure explains a lot
Please elaborate?

Ontopic: She already cheated? TWICE? I'm twelve so I'm not very educated on this stuff, but the fact that she cheated twice is going to bring up some paranoia that bites at you whenever she's not with/around you.

Save up money to get by, but I wouldn't stay as attached to the relationship just don't show it I guess.

I honestly don't know what it's like to be there, so feel free to correct me.

Ontopic: She already cheated? TWICE?
It wasn't the dictionary term for cheating, she didn't have love with them.
She dumped me once, and was camwhoring the other time. She hasn't broken my trust for a while though.

Build up money for an apartment and dump her, she is bad news from the looks of it.

If you really don't trust her at all, you should not be with her.  Jus' sayin'.

I bet she's seen Chris' hard place ;)

forget that, don't be a push over.

Set your ground rules, and if she even steps close to breaking them, drop her like a sack of stuff. You shouldn't even be with her if she's cheated on you twice, and you dont trust her. That's the exact sort of person you DONT want to be with.

You're at the age where you're getting into the relationship habits that you'll keep for life - don't get stuck with that.

forget that, don't be a push over.

Set your ground rules, and if she even steps close to breaking them, drop her like a sack of stuff. You shouldn't even be with her if she's cheated on you twice, and you dont trust her. That's the exact sort of person you DONT want to be with.

You're at the age where you're getting into the relationship habits that you'll keep for life - don't get stuck with that.
This guy is right.

It wasn't the dictionary term for cheating, she didn't have love with them.
She dumped me once, and was camwhoring the other time. She hasn't broken my trust for a while though.
I think that cheating is defined by showing genuine affection to more than one person that should only be given to one.

forget that, don't be a push over.

Set your ground rules, and if she even steps close to breaking them, drop her like a sack of stuff. You shouldn't even be with her if she's cheated on you twice, and you dont trust her. That's the exact sort of person you DONT want to be with.

You're at the age where you're getting into the relationship habits that you'll keep for life - don't get stuck with that.

Sadly have to agree.

Even if you trust her now, the fact she cheated in the first place is plenty reason enough, but you never know.

.....How old are you?

I'm doubting your profile age.
This is stuff mid 20 year olds go through.