And here I was, thinking Okiver had finally decided to forget off.

It's like these people don't realize when you simply aren't acceptable in a community anymore.
Be realistic, in a society you have to deal with all types of people including those like "Okiver" those people can change and grow up to do something great, but the people like you in a community never change and you bitch and moan about the other people while never getting to know them or their reasons for doing such "Terrible things". I'm not saying what he did was right, but welcome to the real world where you have to deal with other people and their choices!