Author Topic: So me and my lady friend just got caught sneaking out late at night :(  (Read 3471 times)

Out past curfew
Breaking into public property after hours

Man up, tell her parents what happened. Show some responsibility so they don't think negatively towards you. Sure they might discard an apology and continue to hate you, but they can't really stop you from dating a person you like unless they convince her to throw a restraining order in your path.

Sart dating like a normal person, no one likes that guy who is suspicious and roams around late at night.
this x10

bubbagum+dionysusan=secret lovers who forgeted up

you're making it worse

If your "lady friend" still likes you, ignore her stuffty family and keep hanging out with her.

Just break it to them, theres nothing wrong with having fun, swimming in someone else's pool is wrong, yes. But if they love their daughter enough and aren't biased overprotective stuffparents they'd let you 2 have a normal relationship, if not:

Try to hold your horses a bit untill you're both 18, (given that that's the age of consent in your country) and when that happens they can't prevent you by law (Worst case scenario they kick her out of the house and she's completely dependant on you, further strengthening your relationship).

TL;DL = wait till both 18, forget her every night and send the videos to her parents.

Bro. They're two 17 year olds that aren't even officially in a relationship.

I wouldn't blame her parents for not liking you. If I had a kid who was out during night hours with friends, I'd get to the bottom of it and force him or her to stop all contact with those friends if they are hanging out at nighttime. I believe in curfews, and I hope more places impose them on teenagers. Why do teenagers have to be out at 2 AM in the morning? What can they possibly do that they couldn't do during the day?

If I had a kid who was out during night hours with friends, I'd get to the bottom of it and force him or her to stop all contact with those friends

Idk about this.  Depends on the age and maturity of the kid I suppose.

I wouldn't blame her parents for not liking you. If I had a kid who was out during night hours with friends, I'd get to the bottom of it and force him or her to stop all contact with those friends if they are hanging out at nighttime. I believe in curfews, and I hope more places impose them on teenagers. Why do teenagers have to be out at 2 AM in the morning? What can they possibly do that they couldn't do during the day?

I dont know man, in hot states, nighttime is a great time to hang out because its cool outside and not super hot

He said the neighborhood pool...you guys are acting like he should be arrested for breaking and entry, maybe it was open...

this is the sorta stuff that happens when you own an el camino

I dont know man, in hot states, nighttime is a great time to hang out because its cool outside and not super hot

I think in neighborhoods where there are high poverty rates, and of course that usually comes with high crime rates - there should be strict curfew laws put into place for people under 16 or 17.

this is the sorta stuff that happens when you own an el camino

It's a lot worse when you have a coronet sitting by it

bubba and dion just need to come to their senses that they both secretly browse the forums and date eachother. i'm p sure the love would be hote

You need to go away.

bubba and dion just need to come to their senses that they both secretly browse the forums and date eachother. i'm p sure the love would be hote

this is the sorta stuff that happens when you own an el camino
It's a lot worse when you have a coronet sitting by it

I knew my car(s) would be brought up in this topic in some way shape or form lmao

Bro. They're two 17 year olds that aren't even officially in a relationship.

yeah, this. We don't call it a relationship but we've both talked about it and know that's what it is. I guess we just don't want others bothering us about it? I dunno.

Out past curfew
Breaking into public property after hours

Man up, tell her parents what happened. Show some responsibility so they don't think negatively towards you. Sure they might discard an apology and continue to hate you, but they can't really stop you from dating a person you like unless they convince her to throw a restraining order in your path.

Sart dating like a normal person, no one likes that guy who is suspicious and roams around late at night.

It's very irresponsible but I'm not,"that guy who creeps around at early morning hours," the only time iIve ever done this kind of thing is with her. It's mutual, we're not bad people we just, I don't know, want to have fun together. We don't have a curfew in my area, also, I guess we should though. yes the neighborhood pool is open 24/7, we weren't the only ones there. But the people there we're people I made sure my parents didn't know lol. We do date like normal folk, there isn't anything wrong with having fun. I do realize the way I do it though, and the way I concealed it from everyone including her parents is wrong though.


I wouldn't blame her parents for not liking you. If I had a kid who was out during night hours with friends, I'd get to the bottom of it and force him or her to stop all contact with those friends if they are hanging out at nighttime. I believe in curfews, and I hope more places impose them on teenagers. Why do teenagers have to be out at 2 AM in the morning? What can they possibly do that they couldn't do during the day?

Yes I know, but her parents didn't like me before and I, honestly, didn't give them a reason not to. I've tried ti figure out why but now they finally have a reason anyhow so yeah. I don't know if you understand how it is but, I can't just stop talking to her. She's the best and nearly only friend I've got, best I've ever had, and I love her to death. There aren't those kind of curfew laws where I live. It's not that we have to be out at 2AM, it's just easier to be out then. We can hang out where we want for the most part and not be bothered. In the area where I live the night community is a whole lot more peaceful and calm than the day community, and not everybody is suspicious as hell. Her parents are like some of few exceptions rofl.

If your "lady friend" still likes you, ignore her stuffty family and keep hanging out with her.

um we're still good lol this wasn't just my idea anyhow.

I've come to the realization that her family just isn't going to like me, even with my apology. I can't just stop talking to her though, she wouldn't want that and neither do I.
« Last Edit: August 05, 2014, 09:47:13 PM by Dionysusan »

I'm not,"that guy who creeps around at early morning hours," the only time iIve ever done this kind of thing is with her.

Yes I know, but her parents didn't like me before and I, honestly, didn't give them a reason not to. I've tried ti figure out why but now they finally have a reason anyhow so yeah.

I've come to the realization that her family just isn't going to like me, even with my apology. I can't just stop talking to her though, she wouldn't want that and neither do I.

If these are all true, I think it's mostly just parents being protective of their daughter and they're unsure of exactly what's going on in the wee hours of the morning. If being out late wasn't/stopped being an issue and they still hated you anyway/beforehand, then they're just being losers.

But if you haven't apologized yet (can't really tell from the context), I'd suggest doing that whether they continue hating on you or not.