Okay, i'm back for another rant topic to let off some steam because i'm really loving pissed, now that I've pieced all of this together.
Back in May, I asked one of my friends to formal. I'll call her "[girl]". So, I asked [girl] to formal, and she said yes, and was talking about how her friends thought I liked her. I sort of did, so I said I did a little bit. Actually, instead of typing this whole back and forth conversation, I can just show you the conversation I have saved. (read it left to right like a book)
After all this, I'm pretty sure she told everyone she knew about us being together. I'm not completely sure about that, but the next day, everyone at school knew and I hadn't told anybody. Example:
[girl] asked me to go to a movie with her that friday, and I said sure. I asked my mom if she could drive me, but apparently she was too busy. I told [girl] that I couldn't do it that day, and that I was really sorry and that we could do it another day. 2 days later she asks if we could hang out that day, I ask my mom to drive me, and she says she can't. We were staying at home that day, doing loving nothing, why can't you drive me? But yeah, apparently 12 miles is way too long to drive for my "extremely busy" mom. So I tell her, that I'm really really sorry that I can't go today and that next weekend we'll do something. Well, later that night, [girl] texts me and says, "I'm really sorry, but I don't think we should be together. I don't want to start anything because I'm moving to [state] in early fall. Again, I'm really really sorry that I'm saying this, you probably don't want to go to formal with me anymore.." I told her that it's ok and that I'd still like to go to formal with her, just as friends. I did understand what she meant, that she doesn't want to start a relationship then leave. Later that night, I was talking with Marooncacti, and he gave me some advice on what to say.
So the next day I told her that, and she just replied with the same thing as last night. Well, I could just leave the situation at that, but, since she told EVERYONE, and I mean everyone about us being together, now every single loving person was asking me about it, friends, parents, even some loving teachers. We had only been together for 2 days, and when I told people that, they would either give me extreme sympathy or make fun of me.
We did go to formal together, but barely talked. Over the summer I talked with her a little bit, and she did still want to hang out, but my mom
still wouldn't drive me, even if it was like 10 miles. [girl] and I ended up going to different high schools, which sucks because I was actually planning on going to the same high school as her, but my family wouldn't let me go there because of the "ratio of immigrants and blacks" at that school. Are you loving serious? My family won't let me decide my education because of the amount of loving different races, how tribal. My family reached a new low that day. Anyways, the high school I did end up going to has an even more complex race percentage, 35% black, 30% hispanic, 20% white, and 5% other. The other school had like 40% white, 25% black, and 35% hispanic. Thanks family for making false loving assumptions and sending me to a school which you would probably shame for having too many "immigrants".
Now it's November 15th, almost winter, and she still hasn't moved. I'm beginning to think that she either lied, or maybe her family decided they were going to stay. Now she has a boyfriend, and even if they were still moving, what the forget you get a boyfriend now? Like a month before you possibly leave? Nice work. The thing that really grinds my stuff is now, every loving WEEKEND, MY MOM ASKS "hey want me to drop you off at [girl]s house?" RRRRGGAAAHHHHH YOU forget WHY COULDN'T YOU DO THAT, YA KNOW LIKE 4 MONTHS AGO?? It's not like my mom was completely oblivious that we were together either, I actually told her "Mom, can you please drive me to [town] because [girl] wants to go to the movies with me since we're dating. Well it was a big mistake telling her, because now my family still asks me about her all the time. forget
btw if you read all of that I thank you lol. I know it's a huge wall of text, but again thanks
no tl;dr read it if you want to hear it
