Sent a rose on impulse - How forgeted am I?

[ForgetLavender]

Every v-day my school has an event where you can anonymously send a rose to a student for a dollar, I've never participated before because I've always been with someone, until this v-day. I also have borderline, which along with a lot of other symptoms, makes me react on impulse without much thought. This will be relevant later.

I was very drunk at a party a few weeks ago, and asked one of my friends if "I had a chance with Ashley" (Fake name). She said no, so I shrugged it off and continued doing whatever I was doing.
Yesterday night my friend Skype'd me and asked me if I remembered asking that. I said yes and she told me that she told Ashley my question personally, and that Ashley got really shy and mumbled out yes. My friend then continued to completely cover me with questions about if I "like-liked" Ashley; which I answered as avoidingly as possible as I knew the answer would go straight to Ashley as well.
Afterwards she was my wingman with telling me things Ashley liked and that I should send a rose. But I told her the event ended already.

So, today at school I was hanging out on my second break when I noticed the roses event stand was still there and stocked. I asked my friend "Hey do you got a dollar for a rose?" which he did, and gave me. I bought an anonymous rose and wrote "I suck at first moves, so I'll leave it to this rose", then gave it to the guys at the stand for them to deliver Friday.
On my way back to my friend I realized what I just did, and my handwriting is super obvious and I feel like I jumped the gun.

This might be my anxiety, my depression or whatever is sick in my head talking, but I feel like I forgeted up big time.

Edit:

I should mention that I promised myself to not get into a relationship until my mental issues are over; and I'm kind of ruining that promise.
I should mention I've never been in a relationship with a girl before. But she hasn't been in a relationship at all before.
I should mention I am really anxious and self conscious for people who I want to befriend.

Edit 2:
The problem is I have dumped girls before and it turned out in them not talking to me anymore where they were priorly friends. Don't want a situation like this.
I'm also loving edgy so my already broken heart cant take another beating *sobsob*

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[#Ravencroft]

The only thing that concerns me here is why you didn't have your own dollar to use.

[ForgetLavender]

The only thing that concerns me here is why you didn't have your own dollar to use.

Because it's Thursday and I already spend the weekly 10 EUR I put free for lunch because I had to buy extra for when I went smoking yesterday.

[Katla]

I should mention that I promised myself to not get into a relationship until my mental issues are over; and I'm kind of ruining that promise.

Doesn't matter.

I should mention I've never been in a relationship with a girl before. But she hasn't been in a relationship at all before.

If this was a legitimate reason for not doing it, nobody would ever date anyone.

I should mention I am really anxious and self conscious for people who I want to befriend.

I don't even know what this is supposed to mean. You asked your friend if you had "a chance" with her, so obviously you're already interested.

Just go through with it. Who cares? If it works out, that's great, you've got someone you care about, who cares about you. If it doesn't work out, then what difference does it make? You'll just be single again, like you already are.

[ForgetLavender]

Doesn't matter.

Yeah it does rofl I do really bad things when troubled by a breakup because of my borderline and w/e.

If this was a legitimate reason for not doing it, nobody would ever date anyone.

It's just an explanation to why I'm anxious. Girls are obviously different than boys in aspects.

I don't even know what this is supposed to mean. You asked your friend if you had "a chance" with her, so obviously you're already interested.

I was very drunk and it was also on impulse.

If it doesn't work out, then what difference does it make? You'll just be single again, like you already are.

I'll sink deeper into depression which will be absolutely top notch

[#Ravencroft]

I don't see why this is such a big deal anyways. If it works out then cool, if it doesn't then whatever. i don't see why you'd get depressed over it. I thought you were gay anyways??

[ForgetLavender]

I don't see why this is such a big deal anyways. If it works out then cool, if it doesn't then whatever. i don't see why you'd get depressed over it. I thought you were gay anyways??

Panloveual.
Also I'm already clinically depressed and have suicidal thoughts.

which is why im edgelord

[shamester]

my school is doing the same

[#Ravencroft]

Well to me it seems like a healthy relationship with someone who accepts you/your condition would be a good thing.

[IkeTheGeneric]

should've done a poppy, you're straight fukt op :(

women love poppies

[ForgetLavender]

Well to me it seems like a healthy relationship with someone who accepts you/your condition would be a good thing.

It's more about the potential denying or the inevitable breakup.

should've done a poppy, you're straight fukt op :(

women love poppies

ill probably give Lavender's and Forget Me Not's if everything works out to go repeat history.

my school is doing the same

VHC?

[IkeTheGeneric]

It's more about the potential denying or the inevitable breakup.

You never know, things might work out :y

[ForgetLavender]

You never know, things might work out :y

Knowing me she'll probably leave as soon as I request to marathon Baman & Piderman together!
Nah I'm kidding. I'm just really anxious.

[Ayxrion]

we do silly crushograms where, for a dollar, they will send you this bottlecap that says "you're my crush!" and the letter if which you wrote.

[Katla]

Yeah it does rofl I do really bad things when troubled by a breakup because of my borderline and w/e.

It's not like it's just going to go away. And it certainly won't be any easier if you force yourself to be miserable and alone.

Girls are obviously different than boys in aspects.

Yeah, their gender aspect.

I was very drunk and it was also on impulse.

Why does it matter that it was "on impulse"? It doesn't mean that it isn't what you want. It only means you didn't consider the consequences of it. If I impulsively buy a car I loved that's a little too expensive, I still love the car, even if it'll cause me some financial trouble. Maybe being drunk could end up with you making a decision you wouldn't normally want, but you weren't drunk when you bought the rose. (Presumably...)

I'll sink deeper into depression which will be absolutely top notch

Whether you do nothing or it ends badly, you'll be unhappy, and years later it won't make a difference if you were more unhappy for a while than you had been. But if you date her, like you both seem to want, and it goes well, then that's great for both of you. You'll be happier, at least. If you don't do it, you'll just be left thinking "what if," anyway.