Author Topic: How am I supposed to deal with a guy like... (Long rant)  (Read 1194 times)

So, here's the story;
   In my drama class for grade ten there's this kid, and we'll just name him Z for now. So Z has been though of as well, annoying and very distracting. Not from me but from everyone else who has ever been around him. Even he himself warned me he'd be 'socially awkward' and I didn't believe it at first. Boy was I fool not to believe it. Our teacher pushed us towards welcoming him and being good to him since it was his first day. This was before I realized he wasn't kidding when he said he'd be annoying. So, I had my own little group of friends in the drama class and we were the only one to actually open up to him. At first he actually seemed kind of cool until we were assigned our first project with him. When we tried to get work done he did nothing but talk about completely off topics things forever. Even when we told him to stop and get on task he still persisted, even after we threatened to kick him out of the group. Well, even that didn't stop him. He continually threw hissy-fits afterwords and when we asked him for ideas he'd either give us something totally irrelevant or say, "Go forget your mother." No joke, that was the kids only insult, besides "your mom" and flipping you off whenever he felt like it. The teacher soon got involved and rejected my idea of kicking him out. We had a little talk about the problem and even then, nothing happened. So we just went ahead and did the project without him while still giving him credit (we honestly had no other choice otherwise he'd be pissed and so would the teacher). This kid says he doesn't have any kind of disability, not even ADHD or ADD. However I find that hard to believe when he literally can't focus on a single topic without completely going off track or being a disturbance. After the project was done and we got a decent mark, Z decided that we were his best friends in the whole world and was going to fallow us around wherever we went. Now, we're stuck with him. Every project we try to say no to him but he just forces his way in. I'm trying to hold myself from flipping on him and the rest of my friends are too shy to say 'no'.
The only thing that seems to separate my friends and I from him are assigned groups. Which isn't all that bad I mean there are some benefits to it, but still. We don't always get assigned groups and he's always going to keep coming back.
Also the only song he ever sings is "Do you like pina coladas?" 24/7. Not to mention the only few lines he knows is the "Do you like pina coladas" and "Getting caught in the rain". Which again isn't bad at first but it gets to you after he does it 100000 times in a day.

Trust me when I say we've tried to show him patients but it wears very quickly. Not to mention that all the other groups saw how he acted with us and are not hesitant on doing anything with him. (Also for a little back story which makes it all more creepy, he carrys a full loving box of condoms with him wherever he goes. I know this because he showed it to my friends and I and talked about how you'll never know when you're gunna bang. This guy is on a crazy stupid quest for pusillanimous individual and there ain't nothing stopping other than rape charges. He has talked about forcing love on his 'girl-friend')

For those who are going to be like "TL;DR" in short, "There's this kid, he's loving annoying and I don't know what to do with him."
« Last Edit: March 05, 2015, 09:04:36 PM by tnatsissA »

he carrys a full loving box of condoms with him wherever he goes.
lol sounds like your average forgetwaAAAAT THE forget

IF YOU LIKE STAYIN OUT TILL MIDNIGHT

Probably because he bought the box thinking he's going to use them and they're about to expire which explains why he takes them everywhere to find an excuse to use it before it expires.

i'm just imagining this kid talking to a chick and the chick is weirded out

and like, he drops the box out of his pocket on purpose and goes "oh, whoops! i wonder how those got there... wink wink"

As someone who used to be sort of like this, I really don't know if there's much you can do. I'm willing to bet that despite his claims, he does in fact have a disorder of some sort, possibly something on the autism spectrum (hey, i'm being serious).
In RETROSPECT, I wish people had told me how much of an ass I had made of myself, but I probably wouldn't have understood at the time.
If you have an issue with him, be firm, be direct, and don't tolerate his stuff. If he's like me, it's the only way he'll learn.
Then again, I still hate my life, so take my advice with a grain of salt.



Make him wear the whole box at a time. :cookieMonster:

i'm just imagining this kid talking to a chick and the chick is weirded out

and like, he drops the box out of his pocket on purpose and goes "oh, whoops! i wonder how those got there... wink wink"

Actually he did pull that sort of trick with his girlfriend. He told me the he had found this banana flavored condom, in which is actually dropped it out of his pocket while he was hanging out with her. The results were hilarious because rather than getting laid his girlfriend just played with the condom instead lol.

As someone who used to be sort of like this, I really don't know if there's much you can do. I'm willing to bet that despite his claims, he does in fact have a disorder of some sort, possibly something on the autism spectrum (hey, i'm being serious).
In RETROSPECT, I wish people had told me how much of an ass I had made of myself, but I probably wouldn't have understood at the time.
If you have an issue with him, be firm, be direct, and don't tolerate his stuff. If he's like me, it's the only way he'll learn.
Then again, I still hate my life, so take my advice with a grain of salt.

I have tried being firm with him. Again, nothing work. I tried talking to him in private and explain to him that he's being annoying but it's just not getting through to him. He always uses the excuse, "I'M TRYING MY BEST." This guy's unfix-able unfortunately until he grows old enough to realize well... He forgeted up. (He's 16 btw)

stick it in his pooper
but make sure he wears a condom
Make him wear the whole box at a time. :cookieMonster:

You guys. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)‎
« Last Edit: March 05, 2015, 09:02:32 PM by tnatsissA »

just take him by the neck and chokeslam him until he gives you consent and then just
stick it in his pooper

you could like just shoot him.

tell him his best isn't good enough and he should go forget himself

you could like just shoot him.
yah i wish

just take him by the neck and chokeslam him until he gives you consent and then just
funny enough after all you guys saying stick er' in the pooper he did announce that he is bi-loveual.


My parents met him one day and thought he was gay too, lel

I remember being friends with a lame ass dude back at my old school. Only reason I tolerated him was because we've been friends since 2nd grade, and back then he wasn't an idiot.