My friend group shattered

[Seath45]

Last two years, I made good friends with some people sharing lots of interests with me, one year later I lost contact with them. My other friend got me a number of another. I texted him, and he said that everything changed. One person grew up pre-maturely. Another moved, some more lost contact. And another was cast out for some reason. This got me thinking that I'm young, and still have years to come. But I don't want to grow up now. I want to stay like my current state and live until I feel like it's the right time. At least the person that gave me my friend groups number is still like me. Can anyone relate to what happened in this, pretty long paragraph... _Jesus...

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[Flamecannon]

pretty long paragraph...

Honestly it's not really but I understand when friendships dissolve. Normally this occurs between certain education jumps, such as from elementary to middle school, middle school to high school, high school to college, etc. and it's a shame that it is purely because of location and not interests and such. Like although my friend merely moved like a few miles away, because it takes an hour to get from there to my house (not that long for some people but way more of a detriment without your own car n such) I don't really invite him over to parties and such because I know it's just going to be a hassle but I try to talk to him over skype or faucetbook here and there. but hey now even i have a drivers license so who knows.

[Clone v.117]

The hard thing to understand is that even if you want to keep things how they've been, other people won't stop their lives just to hang around.
Sometimes you just have to move forward.

[Folie à Deux]

lol i had a really good social circle but my bpd 'shattered' it as well

[phflack]

this happens too much to me
living online, servers going down or people getting bored of it normally ends up with the group being dissolved for pretty much forever