I think you're misunderstanding the point here. I enjoy this place for the most part. A few bad apples will not ruin that for me. Cheese has been following me in threads, PM'ing me, and generally just attempting to make me miserable. I don't hate you. I don't hate Cheese. I don't hate anyone. I just want to be able to post in peace, have a moderately serious discussion, and not have to watch people get dog piled for something they did in the past or for making a mistake.
This is a pretty informal forum and requires a bare minimum requirement of etiquette and tact if you want to "post in peace". I don't remember who you are, all I remember is that you have a habit of antagonizing people because they disagree with you, which in turn leads you to post about how bad the community is or how hostile everyone acts. What impression you leave on the people viewing your post is how they will perceive you from then on. If you're often funny, helpful or friendly regardless of what you've done in the past, people will like you. That's a simple as it gets.
Nobody here would care about who's alt you were if you didn't call everyone immature or hostile. You pretty much brought all negative attention onto yourself.
In Zedrow's case, people have the dumb stuff he does fresh in memory, so whenever he gets caught in some more bullstuff, it only makes his situation worse. With that said, there are people on this forum that are waiting for users that have caused issues in the past to slip up so they're 'justified' in tearing them apart verbally.
The best thing Zedrow can do right now is recognize he's done some stupid thigns, lay low for a week until the drama blows over and stop repeating past mistakes. That's all it will take.