https://soundcloud.com/virtual-riot/virtual-riot-did-i-mention-i
the drums are definitely audible but they're either not as loud as the actual melody or around equal to it
This song is already on my list, and it's a good example of drums done well. The unobtrusive volume and low pitch make it acceptable, though the way the beat cuts out after an 1/8th note is irritating. Even so, I have to say that I enjoyed the parts without drums the most.
The beats at the beginning (0:30 - 1:00) are an excellent demonstration of the despicably earsplitting kicks I hate.
Here's an example of a song that does well in the department of drum sound.
https://soundcloud.com/revamped-recordings/serenity-roninDespite being extremely heavy on the bass, the kick is low and resonant - not infuriatingly high or short.
You know I meant cymbals.
But forget those too...
I used to play trombone in a concert band, and I sat directly in front of the cymbals. Eventually I just took to balancing my instrument on my shoulders and covering my ears with my hands whenever a large crash came up, because I couldn't loving handle the volume.