Author Topic: [Blogland] Teenage Bullstuff Help Requested  (Read 1678 times)

Hey guys, a blogland post here. At the school I go to, the class you get put in during 6th grade stays with you until your final year. The last time I talked about this stuff was around two years ago. But basically, back in 7th grade (8th now), I asked this girl out because for some reason I figured it'd work out. Turns out, she said no and then a week later started saying really nasty stuff behind my back about me (to my best friend!). I had decided to stay away from her, after realizing she was a really horrible person (for other things too). Nothing had happened between us since then, since we don't really talk that much. But, last night at around 10pm my friend from earlier started talking about something major that had happened. Apparently, she confided in him that she had a crush on me, even after I got rejected a year before that. She was on about how it's different now, or something. I'm 100% sure this wasn't fake, but when I got it I was pretty sure the rusemaster was pulling my strings, especially since I was having a fuss with her about something earlier in the week. Basically, all I did last night was freak out, and that did continue into the morning. I just wanted to have a chat with her. Later on though, my friend said something about PMing her. I did, and she questioned why I did so. I told her my friend told me to do it, who was acting on her request. According to some screenshots sent later on, she blocked me and now she's at a wedding. This is about the time when the girl's best friend came in contact with me, and questioned why I hacked into my friend's Hangouts account. I didn't have anything to do with this, so I said no. Then I questioned about crush-girl blocking me, and she had no idea what I was talking about. I sent her the screenshot my friend gave me, and she acted suprised. I didn't get to talk to her for much longer, but that leaves me where I am now. Pretty much clueless.

Screenshots:

« Last Edit: August 30, 2015, 05:32:09 PM by Johnny Blockhead »

tell her you're gay

jk get an adult




Update


Ok so basically she sent my friend this after a bit of radio silence, and now I'm pretty confused. All the stuff I really said was from a year ago, and it stemmed from my friends making shekel jokes. The only reason I honestly don't like her / was rude was because of the stuff she did behind my back. I'm thinking of sending her this through (on my friend's account)

Hey, it's John. I've been pretty confused about everything going on lately. But, friendname has been sending me some screenshots of stuff you've been saying, about your crush and other things. Honestly, the only reason I slightly dislike you is because of the nasty stuff you said behind my back to friendname, I believe a week or so after you rejected me. I don't care about you being over me, it's just that I want you to understand why, and that I've left the tribal stuff in the past. I'm also willing to put the things you did in the past, too.


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in hindsight this all sounds really loving stupid don't sling poo at me, forums
« Last Edit: August 30, 2015, 05:57:40 PM by Johnny Blockhead »

lol what did you say about Jews to her?

forget her right in the pusillanimous individual.
OT: you have a better social life than me. Im going to cry in a corner now.

first off, i think i can probably help
i honestly don't really mind if you take my advice, but it's what i've been living by and it's been working.

1. middle school dating is a pile of stuff, thats why you wait until your high school years to go get the ladies, every middle school relationship at MINIMUM lasts about a few weeks, probably 3-4 months tops. don't deal with it.
2. if someone talks stuff about you then wants you, tell them to go forget themselves. they shouldn't expect you to like them again after they say horrible stuff about you, i know they might say "oh its different (insert dumb emotes) :III" but it won't be. don't waste your time
3. wait a few years to date, research is there for you :^)
4. don't take someone who considers stuff really fast

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There's not much to do if she/he is harassing you, but tell someone, preferably in the real world.

1. middle school dating is a pile of stuff, thats why you wait until your high school years to go get the ladies, every middle school relationship at MINIMUM lasts about a few weeks, probably 3-4 months tops. don't deal with it.
I've never really understood this advice

The guys who get girls in middle school are the same guys who get the girls in high school. It's only really pointless if you don't think confidence building is a worth-while exercise.

Dont cheat on your right hand you forgetnugget.

first off, i think i can probably help
i honestly don't really mind if you take my advice, but it's what i've been living by and it's been working.

1. middle school dating is a pile of stuff, thats why you wait until your high school years to go get the ladies, every middle school relationship at MINIMUM lasts about a few weeks, probably 3-4 months tops. don't deal with it.
2. if someone talks stuff about you then wants you, tell them to go forget themselves. they shouldn't expect you to like them again after they say horrible stuff about you, i know they might say "oh its different (insert dumb emotes) :III" but it won't be. don't waste your time
3. wait a few years to date, research is there for you :^)
4. don't take someone who considers stuff really fast
thanks for the advice, honestly I wasn't ever considering going through with dating her (now). I've realized that about middle school and dating.

middle school dating is a pile of stuff, thats why you wait until your high school years to go get the ladies, every middle school relationship at MINIMUM lasts about a few weeks, probably 3-4 months tops. don't deal with it.
are you in middle school
if someone talks stuff about you then wants you, tell them to go forget themselves. they shouldn't expect you to like them again after they say horrible stuff about you, i know they might say "oh its different (insert dumb emotes) :III" but it won't be. don't waste your time
but this is surprisingly good advice from maxx

I am sorry but high school dating doesn't mean anything until 11th and 12th