So, my formal ag mech teacher got arrested...

[ZombiLoin]

actually a surprising number of rape victims admit to actually enjoying it. some even still connect with their rapists afterwards

uh

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[pch]

actually a surprising number of rape victims admit to actually enjoying it. some even still connect with their rapists afterwards

i hate to break it to you but im pretty sure that's called stockholm syndrome
my old pediatrician from when I was like 12 was in the news recently, he tried to forced a 14 year old girl into giving him a handjob while her parents were out of the room. that dude was creepy as forget and i always hated going to my pediatrics and getting him, figures he was forgeted in the head

[Katadeus]

i hate to break it to you but im pretty sure that's called stockholm syndrome

That along with the hormonal bond-forming response elicited by love. Really doesn't make it any better though.

[mod-man]

i hate to break it to you but im pretty sure that's called stockholm syndrome

i mean i have no doubt thats probably the case a majority of the time, but i never disregard the possible 1%

[XR-7]

my old pediatrician from when I was like 12 was in the news recently, he tried to forced a 14 year old girl into giving him a handjob while her parents were out of the room. that dude was creepy as forget and i always hated going to my pediatrics and getting him, figures he was forgeted in the head

Maybe if you'd asked he would've returned the favor

[Biohazard]

Erm, I don't think a single person who was raped loved it.

same can be said for animals i joke

[Frequency]

same can be said for animals i joke

oh dear

[pch]

Maybe if you'd asked he would've returned the favor

have you ever met someone who always smiles, like even when they're angry they still plaster a smile on their face? he was that kind of guy and that alone made me think he was weird lol

[sir dooble]

to the ppl who have been raped and ended up liking it

what did you like about it? was it the loss of control? was it the forcefulness?

I would hope that no one here is capable of answering that question.

actually a surprising number of rape victims admit to actually enjoying it. some even still connect with their rapists afterwards

I don't know about the connection part, but you're correct about there being some amount of victims who claim to have enjoyed the act (although I don't know the statistics).

But that's still not meaning they want to do it again.
I've read that people who have admitted to feeling any pleasure from it also have a greater tendency to develop psychological issues, because they're trying to balance anger and disgust from it having happened to them, and guilt from having felt pleasure.

If anything, the fact that a person can have enjoyed the act can make it all the more awful for them.


And you also have to consider what sort of rapes we're considering here too.
A significant amount of rapes are by people you are familiar with, or already in a relationship with, such as a boy/girlfriend, or a spouse.
That's likely where the connection to the rapist comes from, because they can still like the person who did it to them.

[mod-man]

And you also have to consider what sort of rapes we're considering here too.
A significant amount of rapes are by people you are familiar with, or already in a relationship with, such as a boy/girlfriend, or a spouse.
That's likely where the connection to the rapist comes from, because they can still like the person who did it to them.

oh is that what this topic is about? i was just broadly interpreting all forms (i think my original question was more or so pertaining to a person whose been raped by an unknown assailant), but if its an already existing (or once existing) relational situation then of course i see where the pleasure or connection arouses from

from my experiences, ive come to the conclusion that just about anyone can be attracted to anything. to me, it doesn't seem out of the ordinary that someone could enjoy rape. i dont know if that necessarily means they go out just to try to get raped (or maybe someone does that. though that would be a much more taboo turn on the subject that im sure most people dont do), but role playing is a thing people do to satisfy their loveual fantasies and i think its perfectly safe to assume someone out there role plays rape with someone they trust because of an experience they've had before

but i wont deny that that is not going to be the case 100% of the time. there are so many situations and so many variables (who it was with, where it was, why it was etc.) that could elicit so many different responses. its why i ask