yet another drama-starting thread
honestly its old news that a lot of the servers are samey. most of the fun can be found in developing new servers, especially with friends. not many make it to server-takeoff, but the process is where blockland really shines, not the result.
and there are a lot of projects in development, more than you realize. just look around, ask around, hang around on popular servers or freebuilds and say hi to oldcigarettes. maybe you'll befriend a few of them and start to be part of bigger projects/servers that said oldcigarettes start. or just offer your help to server hosts and be polite about it; some will give you the chance to prove yourself.