like i said, to a degree, just as you stated with the weebs
i love anime, just as much as any other weeb, but i don't go to anime conventions, cosplay, collect merchandise, say random phrases in japanese, etc
i guess the same applies to weed, AS AN EXAMPLE, people who just smoke it and talk about it once in a blue moon is all fine and dandy with me and i certainly don't have a problem with it, but if it's 420blazeit<(this has an autocorrect wtf) everyday for you then thats when it starts being a case of douchebagness
that's my two cents, i'm not attempting to influence anyone just share an informed opinion
if weed becomes legal nationwide, i'll definitely give it a try