afraid to talk to a friend after incident

[-Fate-]

dude hes loving fine, you dont look creepy at all i guess it all comes to the way you act which we cant really help you with that since we dont know you

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[hillkill]

but it seems as people purposely avoid me for whatever reason. i get the vibe that they think i'm creepy or something. maybe it's cause i'm awkward about everything i do? idk

[-Fate-]

but it seems as people purposely avoid me for whatever reason. i get the vibe that they think i'm creepy or something. maybe it's cause i'm awkward about everything i do? idk

Well if you dont make an ass of yourself im pretty sure your fine... Sometimes it seems people try to avoid others but think of it this way there to busy worrying about there own social anxiety then to worry about you.

[Frequency]

you probably would have substantially less acne with short hair

loving this to the max. Get a haircut and just wash your acne hotspots gently when you shower. take those suggestions for better glasses and you'll be a stud in no time.

[hillkill]

loving this to the max. Get a haircut and just wash your acne hotspots gently when you shower. take those suggestions for better glasses and you'll be a stud in no time.

like i said, i have no clue what looks good and what doesn't. half of the glasses were wireframes anyways and this was the only pair that didn't look like garbage to me.

[Frequency]

like i said, i have no clue what looks good and what doesn't. half of the glasses were wireframes anyways and this was the only pair that didn't look like garbage to me.

just go for anything that's thinner. maybe your opinion of what looks good on you doesn't match up with other people's.

at this point, it just seems like you're trying to look for the negative. stop it. there's really nothing to be legitimately negative about.

you don't even look as bad as you had let on

[Foxscotch]

at this point, it just seems like you're trying to look for the negative.

he does it every time something like this comes up about him

[hillkill]

i can't help that i'm a naturally pessimistic person. i have my own self image as well, and i can't see a good one with wireframe glasses.

[Frequency]

if you refuse to help yourself, how do you think we can do jack stuff for you?

[XR-7]

Most of what you're describing is just paranoia. By the way that you explained it, I don't think you'd have any issue with just approaching the girl and talking to her like you would. If you don't feel comfortable with that, then just send her a casual friendly text (since I'm assuming you still have her number). It doesn't and probably shouldn't have to be about the incident.

And you don't look weird js

[hillkill]

i have never really been good in social situations, so i don't really know how to handle complex relationships with people. how would i casually send a text to her without it being extremely awkward?

[XR-7]

i have never really been good in social situations, so i don't really know how to handle complex relationships with people. how would i casually send a text to her without it being extremely awkward?

"Sup"

[-Fate-]

why are you people saying for him to switch glasses hes fine? 1: he does not look ugly in any way 2: glasses really dont effect appearance  3: you guys need to help him focus on not acting creepy

So basically just improve your social skills (not in my department buddy)

[#Jeetlor]

If anything, I bet she's afraid as you are.

[Destroyer]

As others have said, it sounds like you are just being paranoid. Most people won't really make the effort to talk to people they don't know. It's easy to think it is you as a person but really it is just thats how a lot of people are. Why don't you go up to people and start a conversation with them? Is it because you don't know how to start the conversation? Because most likely, that is the reason they don't do the same to you. It isn't because something is wrong with you, people just don't like to come out of their circle.

As for your friend, just talk to her or text her. Just say "Hey, how are you?" This will show her you guys are okay. She probably feels as awkward talking to you as you do talking to her right now. You both are waiting for the other person to talk first to see that everything is okay. If shes really your friend, she will understand fights happen and will be fine going back to they way things were. If she tries to avoid you just because of some little argument, then she isn't the kind of person you need in your life.