july 31, 2014: one of my best friends invited to go to the grand haven coast guard festival with him, his gf, and her best friend(both of these people I had never met) around 7PM after our work. I was 50/50 on it because i was tired and hungry, but I went anyway. That's the only regret I will fully admit to having, because of the events over the course of 10 months and 17 days since then. soooo many things would be different now had I not gone