Author Topic: ex won't talk to me :/  (Read 1718 times)

around 2 years ago, me and my ex had broken up because she just felt we should stay friends but she felt really bad about it and really wanted to stay friends cause we were basically best friends for around 3 years. we ended up going to different high schools and I talked to her a little bit last year (like twice), and the last time I made any contact with her was around September on snapchat. I assumed that we were still on pretty good terms, and that we just haven't talked for a while due to distance. well, the other day I noticed I lost a follower on Instagram (I have like 100 followers so I tend to always notice), and it turned out to be her. At first I didn't really care just because she's the kind of person that like "restarts" their Instagram every 6 months and just deletes every picture and starts fresh and stuff like that, but I just didn't know why she would unfollow me. She wasn't clearing out who she follows and unfollowed me because I barely post, she deliberately just unfollowed me for no reason. Now, i probably sound really whiny right now, but the fact is that after looking into it more, she BLOCKED me completely on snapchat and instagram. I'm still really confused on why she's just completely blocked contact with me, because I have no way to talk to her at all now. The only logical explanation I know of would be because I deleted a picture of me and her off of my Instagram from like 2012 because I was making a really batstuff handicapped face in it. But she's deleted like 10 pictures of me and her from her page so I really don't get the difference. I'm extremely confused on why she's doing this because the last time we talked we were on fine terms.

she will at some point or another, it always happens in the movies right after you save her from the giant-ass dragon

Girls don't talk about their problems. They expect you to find out what you did. If you want to find out, you better start slicing your arms and pour dust on your head and start begging for forgiveness. you better get into contact with her and ask what's wrong. If you aren't comfortable with that, then just let her go.

She's probably got a BF that is extremely jealous of her talking to you, happens all the time. How important was contact with her? Did you ever think you had a chance of getting back with her again? If you answer the second question as yes, then that's probably why she blocked you if she got a BF.

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ex won't talk to me :/
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Why you would want to talk to your ex is beyond me

Why you would want to talk to your ex is beyond me
why is it that all of your posts are extremely handicapped? oh wait youre in middle school.

She's probably got a BF that is extremely jealous of her talking to you

happened to me. sucks. hell I wasnt even her boyfriend, I just went to watch a movie with her once (no kisses or that stuff), and her new boyfriend made her block me. starfish.

Well this is awkward, I get this complaint from my ex's all the time :/

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Same thing happened to me m8. Except my grill never told me she broke up. She just stopped talking to me and avoided all confrontation which is stuffty because she was a good friend.

Moral of the story: Don't stuff where you eat.

the same thing happened with me last summer. but it wasn't on instagram. the only way I had to contact him was google hangouts, and one day, he just blocked me. didn't even say anything about it. there had been a couple of days of silence (far from unusual for us), and when I tried to talk to him again, I was blocked. I sent him a message on another google account I had, and he blocked that too
I don't know why. I have absolutely no idea. he'd been letting me host my website on his VPS for a whlie, and even after he blocked me I was still able to access it, which was useful for getting the files I had on it. I can't access it now, but god knows when he changed that, I haven't tried in a really long time. it was probably just a side effect of some other change he made

at first I was upset, but I guess I don't care that much anymore. we didn't talk much anyway. I'd still like to know why, though

She's probably got a BF that is extremely jealous of her talking to you, happens all the time. How important was contact with her? Did you ever think you had a chance of getting back with her again? If you answer the second question as yes, then that's probably why she blocked you if she got a BF.
I still follow her and I know that she does not have a boyfriend right now, so that's not it. I would still have a chance with being with her if I went to the same school as her, but my mom wouldn't let me go there so we ended the relationship because we were going to different schools.

Sad to say but I think you might just have to write her off as a friend.
Friends come and go, but it's not nice when they leave.

If you try to chase her down through other accounts/services you may just harm the relationship more.
If she returns and gets back in contact then that's good, but otherwise the ball is in her court.

I hope you don't get too upset/hung up over it. You've got plenty of time for plenty more friends and loves.

Could be worse, my ex tried to kill me LoL