if gender is being used interchangeably for "biological love" then yeah i'd say that, excluding weird edge cases, people are probably going to be biologically male or female. tho depending on the context the answer might be different or the question might not even make sense. i tend to stick with the policy of "who cares, they aren't hurting anyone" for issues of how people Feel. cus i figure i have enough on my plate worrying about my own feelings to get fussy about someone else's