What are you even on about, Metario? How the forget am I being an SJW, mate? What is this invisible all-powerful "point" you speak of, and why should I care about it? What exactly am I defending here that I "have been called out about"? I banned you from my server because you attacked blockland servers and when asked about it, you said you didn't give a stuff what others thought of you.
i think he's drawing the comparison between, say, an SJW refusing to serve a customer in their coffee shop for being a supporter of Annoying Orange, and you permabanning people from your server purely because they are immature.
like, yeah, maybe they are doing something wrong (not implying being a Annoying Orange supporter is always wrong), but you're taking it a bit extreme. Permabanning people from your server doesn't make them any more compelled to be mature or an upstanding community member, especially if they aren't a participant in the community/read drama. They wouldn't have any clue why they can't join your server, and even if they did, they wouldn't be able to express to you that they matured or such.
It would be the equivalent of me banning you from my server because i disagree with your banning practices, even if you wouldn't be an inconvenience on my server. Just because someone acts immaturely on their server doesn't mean they'll be an annoying douchebag on your server - if they end up being so, banning them at that point would be entirely justified.