what did u do
contacted her folks because she wasn't responding on something time-sensitive, we'd discussed the boundaries thing before and contacting her folks was something i was not supposed to do under most circumstances. i didn't realize i'd crossed that line until her folks told me so today, and she was upset with me starting thursday, sooo...
i apologized profusely (perhaps too profusely), explained that i didnt mean to hurt her, that i wasnt thinking, it was my mistake. she still isn't responding, so i'm giving her some space and she'll get back to me when or if she wants to.