i don't see the importance of gender, it seems to imply we act a certain way
gender is the categorization of how you fit into your society's gender roles
appearance and personality are the main definers of gender
i believe that gender is not a spectrum and can only be male or female but there is some wiggle room like masculine female and feminine male
stuff like agender, polygender, fuchsgender, sockgender are all made up terms by people who want attention
the people who 'identify' as these genders are just playing pretend and usually fit into one of the two gender roles
love usually meets up with gender but in the case of some people it doesn't i.e transgender people