Just started dating my best friend, how to make it less awkward?

[Badger]

tony where do you import all your bait from

he must have a membership at costco or something

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[Poliwhirl]

either way tony and bisjac are the dynamic stuffpost duo and honestly I'm impressed

they're hired by badspot to take attention away from the vehicle physics

[Lord Tony®]

good luck explaining that to a future girlfriend when she breaks up with you because you refuse to settle down

Lol.

My girlfriend did break up with me because I wouldn't get married with her. I don't care what she thinks I'm not getting married.

Her of all people should know how bad marriage is, she even got married before me and then got a quick divorce a week after from being raped by her husband.

[Clownfish]

I don't care what she thinks

and this is also why she left you

they're hired by badspot to take attention away from the vehicle physics

where was he during the maps incident

[Bisjac]

good luck explaining that to a future girlfriend when she breaks up with you because you refuse to settle down

the fact that you make it sounds like guys are just failing woman's tests is what makes you a cuck.

maybe as a guy, we SHOULD be giving a stuff about ourselves some more and stop falling into those chick-traps.
that "hook em while you can" attitude you have is why all marriages fail.

maybe i dumped a girl who wants to settle down in a different way then i want to settle down? maybe i want to settle down with someone who isnt in it for the financial security, and i want to break even or even be taken up a lifestyle change. (not go down a notch to support her)

so yeah, let her dump me because i didnt fall for her bullstuff whims. why is that a loss for me?

[Lord Tony®]

even ignoring the fact that you will be found out, and you'll REALLY lose everything in the divorce process,

Actually no.

Nope.

Do you even know how forgeted up the divorce system is, especially on alimony?

Say you were 100% faithful but found out your wife had love with 100 men during your marriage and you divorce her. It doesn't matter the reason why you divorced her in the courts. You will end up paying her alimony.

So the woman doesn't lose stuff, it's the man that loses everything no matter how loving faithful he is.

[Poliwhirl]

My girlfriend did break up with me

I don't care what she thinks

[Lord Tony®]

One woman killed her son and the husband divorced the wife because of it. The wife is sitting in jail but now she's getting paid alimony because of the divorce.

It doesn't loving matter what she did. Alimony doesn't care if you murder someone or cheated on someone multiple times. If you are making less money than your other spouse then you get paid in alimony and it's forgeted up.

[Lord Tony®]

I like how you ignored the corruption of what is known as alimony.

[Clownfish]

so how do you guys feel about tea

[Parlydogs22]

gud

[Maxwell.]

I feel like we're just derailing away from OP's main question

[Lord Tony®]

https://news.google.com/newspapers?nid=336&dat=19950502&id=8B1OAAAAIBAJ&sjid=Ae0DAAAAIBAJ&pg=6950,373274&hl=en

[Poliwhirl]

I like how you ignored the corruption of what is known as alimony.

nah man you got a point alimony does blow but thats why im advocating for being careful when it comes to getting married so stupid garbage doesnt happen. not outright refusal to get married, but if they want to rush into it you gotta explain why you can't rush it. at the very least if you know the person well enough they will usually be reasonable and it will be a mutual breakup. if attraction really does expire like you say it does, then it would be probably be mutual.

I feel like we're just derailing away from OP's main question

we're teaching him a valuable lesson that life is temporary and love is fake or something

[Lord Tony®]

Isn't the idea of getting married to do it with someone you care for and trust?

If only it was that loving easy because turns out people change after like 5-10 years.