Well you know, if you have the feelings for her/him, you should be fine.
Isn't that all that matters?
Does it matter if someone looks female or male once you know that you like that guy or girl?
I am not sure why people here want to know if she looks male or not and are saying you should just tell everyone you are gay, but i would not mind it too much.
Why bother putting someone (or yourself for that matter) in a box that says gay or heteroloveual?
I think it is hard to say right away that he is gay, what really matters here is that he has feelings for someone.
If that makes him gay or not, who cares.
And if you care, then you are putting the opinion of others above yours.
Yes, some people will have trouble understanding it, but that is just the way it is.
I do not understand how males get attracted to other males myself, but nevertheless i respect them for the choices they make.
Unless those choices makes them a criminal, then i have no respect.
Unless the law says being gay is a crime, then forget that law man.