Doubt ill see my dad ever again now after a fight my mom and dad had

[Lord Tony®]

.its just normal pajamas at 7 - 8 pm. I dont know whats wrong with it.

Might as well give up on life too. If you don't have the time to put on regular non-pajama pants then stay home.

If you don't you'll end up like the average walmart shopper from 7 - 8 pm.

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[Lord Tony®]

would you like your dad being a bully calling you a friend and asking you stupid questions and stuff for no reason?

Yes.

Because I wouldn't grow up and be soft. This is the issue when you only grow up with a mom.

[otto-san]

Yes.

Because I wouldn't grow up and be soft.

instead you'd probably grow up with poor self-esteem and a lack of understanding of how real healthy relationships are supposed to work

i'd take being "soft" over being emotionally damaged for life

[Drydess]

man like i can tolerate the old people talk for a while but when someone says something along the lines of "kids should be beaten more so they don't grow up to be sissies" it just grinds my gears so much

[Lord Tony®]

i'd take being "soft" over being emotionally damaged for life

Truth be told is that in actuality you'd be emotionally damaged for life either way.

So if he had to live with his dad he would have self esteem issues.

If he is to live with his mom he now lives a sheltered life and doesn't understand the world for what it really is and will cry at the first sign of trouble.


But if he actually had both parents, maybe he'd come out normal.

[otto-san]

what makes you think his mom is making him live a sheltered life? she's standing up for her son against her ex-partner who she left because of this same sort of abusive behavior. that's not being sheltered, that's reinforcing the fact that his father's behavior is not acceptable.

[Lord Tony®]

To be honest I would rather have an understanding of how the real world works over having understanding of how real healthy relationships are supposed to work.

Real world > healthy relationships

Time to get out of this make believe fairy tale land.

[Drydess]

yk you can have self discipline and basic knowledge without pain and being socially inept

[Lord Tony®]

what makes you think his mom is making him live a sheltered life?

It's incredibly obvious and if I had to I'd back it up in detail.

I'll write a 5 page essay on why he is sheltered. However I don't have to because it's so incredibly obvious.

yk you can have self discipline and basic knowledge without pain

Doesn't work in a single parent mother household. lol

What is his mommy going to discipline him on?

[Insert Name Here²]

What is his mommy going to discipline him on?

spanking

[Lord Tony®]

spanking

I doubt a single mother would do that.

[Lord Tony®]

A single mother would coddle and baby their only child.

[Drydess]

It's incredibly obvious and if I had to I'd back it up in detail.

I'll write a 5 page essay on why he is sheltered. However I don't have to because it's so incredibly obvious.

if it's so obvious why are people asking about it
feel free to elaborate

Doesn't work in a single parent mother household. lol

What is his mommy going to discipline him on?

temporarily restricting certain things like being able to go outside for football practice or whatever you like doing? a punishment that isn't physical still does the job, without collateral damage

I doubt a single mother would do that.

any halfway smart mother knows when a spanking is necessary (aka not very often)

[otto-san]

To be honest I would rather have an understanding of how the real world works over having understanding of how real healthy relationships are supposed to work.

Real world > healthy relationships

Time to get out of this make believe fairy tale land.

the point in understanding how healthy relationships work is that you don't accept abusive behavior; there's no reason for you to make your life objectively worse by ending up with starfishs that treat you like they own you. if you understand that you're being treated badly then you can avoid staying in these kinds of situations much more easily. by living an entire life where abusive behavior is the norm, that is the model relationship you will internalize, and if you don't come to understand that negative dynamic, you will either become an abuser yourself, or you will end up in relationships and situations where you're being treated like garbage and you don't know how to do anything but accept it (perhaps you fall into one of these categories). the real world is that you have to deal with people like this, but understanding that the behavior of these individuals is unacceptable is psychologically healthier and will help to avoid getting deeply trapped into a negative relationship with those people.

[Lord Tony®]

any halfway smart mother knows when a spanking is necessary (aka not very often)

Oh please.

This is 2016, parents aren't allowed to spank their children anymore or else DCF will get called on them. Why else is there an rampant amount of children with autism and SJWs now?