Author Topic: friend's boyfriend is trying to cuck me. what do?  (Read 1280 times)

i've been friends with this girl for over 10 years now, and she's had a couple of boyfriends in the past few years. i've never had trouble with the other ones, but her current one is dense as forget. he gets pissed off whenever we hang out together, and sometimes he'll actually show up when we're hanging out just so i don't get her attention. when he shows up, i go silent because he purposely kisses her and gropes her in front of me and it's disgusting. i think he's trying to cuck me or something. what do i do forums?

You know, if you didn't react he'd probably stop

tell your friend that her boyfriend is loving weird. just as simple as that.

You know, if you didn't react he'd probably stop

i don't know how to talk to people when they're being groped and kissed right in front of you

Stop hanging out with her. If she asks why say it's cause her boyfriend has masculinity problems.


You aren't going to gain anything by talking to her about it.
tell your friend that her boyfriend is loving weird. just as simple as that.
stupid advice lol. what would she do? Tell her boyfriend to stop kissing her in public? Are you purposely giving bad advice

Stop hanging out with her. If she asks why say it's cause her boyfriend has masculinity problems.
This.

is this a copypasta? it sure reads like one

Stop hanging out with her. If she asks why say it's cause her boyfriend has masculinity problems.

she knows about it. she tries to push her boyfriend off and says "don't be rude", but he keeps trying his stuff. she tells me he has trust issues because of past relationships, he's insecure bla bla bla.

what i feel really good about though is that he feel threatened by me. i feel like i could use that to my advantage somehow.

when he shows up, i go silent because he purposely kisses her and gropes her in front of me and it's disgusting.

Are you sure he's "purposely" showing affection to his girlfriend to offend her platonic friend or is he just, yknow, showing affection to his girlfriend and you're being an awkward 3rd wheel?

what i feel really good about though is that he feel threatened by me. i feel like i could use that to my advantage somehow.

To do what?

what i feel really good about though is that he feel threatened by me. i feel like i could use that to my advantage somehow.

It's probably better to not push a guy like that into a corner. Just let it run its course; girls probably get bored of guys like that pretty quickly. I'd imagine that if you just maintain conversation as normal while he's trying his stuff then she'll eventually get pissed off at him and the process will be expedited

is this a copypasta? it sure reads like one

"Don't worry, he knows"

stupid advice lol. what would she do? Tell her boyfriend to stop kissing her in public? Are you purposely giving bad advice
never said that but okay.

she knows about it. she tries to push her boyfriend off and says "don't be rude", but he keeps trying his stuff. she tells me he has trust issues because of past relationships, he's insecure bla bla bla.
if this is the case, it won't last long and you won't have too much to worry about.

If she knows it bugs you and tries to stop it then don't worry. They will break up eventually then you can send him little winky faces

Are you sure he's "purposely" showing affection to his girlfriend to offend her platonic friend or is he just, yknow, showing affection to his girlfriend and you're being an awkward 3rd wheel?

sometimes when we'll hang out. he'll batter her on messenger and keep asking her where she is until she tells him. he drives over there and start doing that stuff. i can't help but feel like it's on purpose considering i've been told that he has trust issues.