Author Topic: gotta love rumors (paragraphs ahead beware)  (Read 1131 times)

so today in lunch im sitting at the table, doing my thing talking with my friends
my buddy across from me goes outta nowhere "X is spreading rumors that you have knives in your bag"
now feel free to use the bag joke all you like "oh he forgets knives now?" but im being serious here
so i just get taken aback like "what the forget" and i think  for a second
it was this one fat forget "girl" in social studies who told this other kid and my friend overheard the conversation

i know for a fact that my friend wouldnt lie about this because hes helped me with stuff before warning me about stuff and we've told eachother stuff thats going on back and forth so i doubt that hes lying under any circumstance

so me being me im like "forget this stuff i need to say something" so a period later i walk into social studies and keep in mind im pissed out of my mind
so i wait for the girl to enter the room and i go "why are you telling people that i carry knives in my bag" and she just stops for a second and goes "i dont know what you're talking about"
so me being the rational human being i am i say "did someone tell you that i carry knives? because i dont" and she goes "yea but i cant remember who told me"
and im sitting here like "this was literally yesterday you have to be as dead as a gnats stuff to not remember" in my head
so the other kid she told this to walks in

i go "hey X did someone tell you that i carry knives?" and he shows a look of concern/fear on his face and he goes "yes" and i say, "who told you this?" and he goes "i cant remember" and i showed him this little supply case and i pulled out my pockets and said "theres no knives in here, in my pockets, or in my bag"  keep in mind im trying to be as calm as possible and not yell at anyone
and he goes "good" being scared still and then sits down

theres a whole loving list of reasons i could go on about as to why this is horrible and needs to be stopped but my two prime ones are
1. i will look like a psychopath and nobody will believe me if i dont do anything about this because i have never owned a knife ever
2. i will be socially isolated because people would be scared to even talk to me

and heres the kicker

these two people sit literally face to face in this class
i was absent on monday and tuesday, meaning that stuff could've been said around that time

so i dont really know what to do from here

this is how school shootings happen

dont do anything duh
let them yap, if they ask you about having knives just say no

this is how school shootings happen
i can tell you right now that i wouldnt ever go out of my way to hurt people in social situations like this
i wouldnt shoot up a school ever
thats forgeted
if someone bullied me so bad that i couldnt take it anymore sure i would go out of my way to make sure that one kid giving me the stufftiest time didnt have teeth anymore but seriously i wouldnt kill innocent people

this is how school shootings happen
we had a school shooting threat at my school the day before yesterday lmao

a kid who just got out of the mental hospital after an expulsion a year ago (threatened to kill me and also had nudes he'd taken of 6th graders on his phone) came back this semester and after like a week, he threatened to kill a teacher and a bunch of other stuff towards the school. when they arrested him he was like "you may get me but i have friends" so we got put on lockdown yesterday and today

i can tell you right now that i wouldnt ever go out of my way to hurt people in social situations like this
i wouldnt shoot up a school ever
thats forgeted
if someone bullied me so bad that i couldnt take it anymore sure i would go out of my way to make sure that one kid giving me the stufftiest time didnt have teeth anymore but seriously i wouldnt kill innocent people
the best you can do is say you don't have any and not freak out. If you do it'd just make you look like you're defensive.

rumors are loving killers.

however, I had a rumor about how some girl named Danielle liked me, but I never asked her if she really did. I would have asked her out if she said yes if I asked her, she was pretty :/

if you're in a zero tolerance school assure staff that you're not actually carrying knives so they don't get concerned

thats a knife rumor hahahahaha but in seriousness yeah just allow yourself to show your bag to anyone who asks so they see you dont have any knives

smart idea to move the knives to your locker op ;)

you're taking this a bit too seriously

write "knife" on a piece of paper and put it in your backpack to cancel out the rumor

you're taking this a bit too seriously
This. It's really lame that they made up that rumor, especially since it could have turned out very badly. And it's good you confronted them to clear the air. But the best way to deal with rumors is to simply ignore them, not get all bent out of shape and worried. They probably wanted to hurt your feelings; this thread shows they succeeded. If it continues just tell the administration. Wishing you the best op.

i was gonna photoshop the picture of you getting into a fight and put a knife in your hand but i cant find the pic