I get I'm a lucky kid to be able to live in such a good finical situation and to have food and shelter, but this incident is downright stupid.
whenever I get in these stupid altercations with my family I have one to talk to so I'm forums sorry you gotta take it.
so I get off work at 6 and normally my dad picks me up.
I get off at 6 and I call my dad, normally he is in the parking lot. He doesn't answer when I call him, so I call my sister, she doesn't answer, so I call my brother. my brother picks up and I tell him to hand the phone to dad. he says dad will call me back in a few minutes. no problem. then my sister calls me back because I called her.
Because my brother already talked to my dad I thought my sister wouldn't give a stuff as she never does when I need to be pickuped. so when I answer the phone I just say "nevermind" and hang up. I know, not the most descriptive thing, but all she had to do was call again if she wanted to know why I said nevermind. I thought she was out somewhere or at home.
Turns up she's waiting to pick me up. oh, a simple misunderstanding, I get it. I don't see a problem with it but my sister does.
she starts shouting on me because my "spoiled ass" told her 'nevermind' and how dare I call her with such a vague response. it's not like she can call me a again to see why I said nevermind, like what a inhumane thing to make someone call me again to clarify my 'nevermind'.
When she raised her voice, I tried explaining all this to her and why is she getting angry over nothing. when she found out that she was swearing at me over a misunderstanding, she became even more angry. she said then that she was shouting at me because of my attitude, and how I think everyone owes me everything.
The irony of this all was she was calling me a narcissist while it can just easily show through her words how she is one. she doesn't do chores and leaves passive aggressive comments on me whenever she can. she seems to have this belief of some sort that she's holding the family together or something.
my guess why she overreacted: she's on her period
