Apparently I'm homophobic

[Mouse droidz 21]

Today I got into a altercation with a stupid bigot in public. What I said was in no way discriminating against any gay people. So today in class, I was in a group for one of my media classes and there are 4 people in my group. I'm not gonna say their names so I'll refer them to W, X, Y and Z (because I've been maths all week) and another person, V, the person who is one of the reasons why the altercation happened. So V comes up to me with a LGBT badge and says to me "Do you support it" and I said "because of my beliefs, I do not support it (not implying it should be illegal) and nor do I care about it" then W, who is an African Christan, says it is 100% wrong and that he does not like it. So W brings up the idea of two men kissing, I say that I don't want to see it in front of me because of my opinion and beliefs. He too agrees with me and doesn't want to see it in front of him because of his beliefs


So then X, says that she does not agree with it either and that if she saw it in front of her it is wrong. She is probably religious too. Then Z comes back to our group after talking to one of her friends. Z then heard what we were talking about and the says "Two men kissing is love" and so does X, now changing her opinion for no reason. W says "no it is not love" so Z then says "It is" and I also say "It isn't" she says to me "it is love" and I then say to her "It isn't, it's quiet disturbing" so her being one of those SJW femiazis from Tumblr and Reddit, shouts out loud "Don't you ever loving talk to me again you loving prick" and it was loud, the whole class could hear. Now I do have a short fuse/temper but for something like this I simply looked at her like if she was out of her mind and ignored her. Her friends looked at me and then went up to her to ask her what happened and if she was okay. Z then begins crying.


So because I said that two men kissing is disturbing, apparently I'm homophobic and comitting a war crime. That is loving stupid, I am not homophobic, I did not say "Kill all gay people" did I? and keep in mind the school I go to is full of Muslim people who have said worse than me. Can someone here tell me if I'm homophobic or not? also I have to work with this girl for the rest of the school year.

/help

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[PhantOS]

Do you think a man kissing a woman is disturbing?

[Trogtor]

yes

[Insert Name Here²]

All kissing is disturbing

[Dark Blockland Guard alt.]

All kissing is disturbing

what about smooching

[Mouse droidz 21]

Do you think a man kissing a woman is disturbing?

No, I do it with my girlfriend

yes

Explain

[Nonnel]

idk isn't being uncomfortable around gay people the definition of family values

[PhantOS]

No, I do it with my girlfriend

If you think that regular kissing is normal but gay people kissing is disturbing, you're literally homophobic.

What I see in this is you being somewhat homophobic, but defending it by saying you're not extremely homophobic.

If you don't like to see a man kiss a man or a woman kiss a woman, you're the textbook definition of a family man. It doesn't mean you want to electrocute all gay people or are entirely against gay rights, it just means you are slightly homophobic. There's no black-or-white threshold of what family values is, but in general terms its just you not liking homoloveuality.

There are people who don't like muslims in general, and then there are people who wish all muslims should burn and go to hell. Both cases are islamophobia, it's just one is a more extreme degree of it.

[Trogtor]

yes to phantos
no to you
family values isnt real and neither is sliced bread

[shamester]

The definition of family values:
having or showing an extreme and irrational aversion to homoloveuality and homoloveual people, I'm laymen's terms:
Fear, hatred, or mistrust of lesbians and gay men.

That girl can shove her SJW belief up her ass.  I was an extreme catholic in elementary and middle school and I see where you are coming from and I respect your beliefs, and if she really was an "SJW" she should as well.  Considering she is fighting for justice, she should respect your opinions. 

Just be careful OP, a lot of people on BLF are gonna debate religion with you.

[Master Matthew²]

Interesting thread and all, but who is OP?

[Mouse droidz 21]

If you think that regular kissing is normal but gay people kissing is disturbing, you're literally homophobic.

What I see in this is you being somewhat homophobic, but defending it by saying you're not extremely homophobic.

If you don't like to see a man kiss a man or a woman kiss a woman, you're the textbook definition of a family man. It doesn't mean you want to electrocute all gay people or are entirely against gay rights, it just means you are slightly homophobic. There's no black-or-white threshold of what family values is, but in general terms its just you not liking homoloveuality.

alright that's step 1. explained. But because I'm a religious person I disagree with it but I'm no extremist. Do you think that she should have reacted like that or if she was right to

[PhantOS]

alright that's step 1. explained. But because I'm a religious person I disagree with it but I'm no extremist. Do you think that she should have reacted like that or if she was right to

If you don't like the way she responded to you, you should notify a teacher or guidance councilor and have them diffuse the situation a bit. I don't care whether or not you like or dislike gay people, and neither should she.

If ever you feel your beliefs are being threatened by anyone, you have the right to get some level of teacher intervention. School should be a safe space for people to express their opinions, challenge ideas not people, etc.

[shamester]

alright that's step 1. explained. But because I'm a religious person I disagree with it but I'm no extremist. Do you think that she should have reacted like that or if she was right to

Just you have your beliefs, she has hers.  I think she could've and should've kept them to herself because all she is doing is causing a scene.

[Mega-Bear]

Kind of weird for that person to come up to you and ask for an opinion they couldn't deal with.
On the other hand you think it's disturbing for two people to kiss.
Everyone in this situation needs to grow up.