Feminism in general is a huge movement, with entirely different groups inside it. It includes those 3 waves but as an overarching term it has a general definition. that's what i'm using.
Well here's a definition that fits you.
https://www.google.com/#q=Definition+of+autism&*
Seriously how can you not see how you're trying to turn this argument into, "You say your this definition, but not this word? You're clearly a hypocrite or a bigot"
But the problem is, people aren't definitions, people can believe in these values, but just because someone claims to be a feminist, doesn't mean they support the values of the word, and vice versa.
Talk is loving cheap.
Feminism is to 3rd wave feminism as Colors are to purple.
Then
every other primary/secondary color is better than purple
If you say "colors are evil" you don't specify which colors you disagree with. When you say 'feminism is destroyer of worlds' you fail to specify where 3rd wave feminism falls into that scheme.
Sorry to tell you, but rotten meat ruins the stew.
Avoid generalizing entire groups next time
