Author Topic: Good 3rd date ideas?  (Read 6395 times)

I cannot think of a place for me and my girlfriend to go on a date, I have literally sat here trying to think of something for 3 days and I still have no ideas, our first date was dinner and then a rodeo that her sister was in, and then our 2nd was the movies, I asked her to go skating but she said its a little childish, and now the only idea I have is to go bowling but I'm probably going to get the same answer as skating, I also asked her where she would want to go and she used her generic response of "Thats up to you",
EDIT: Another small problem is that she has school, and the place where we work has our work hours opposite of eachother (she works on my off days and me on hers)
« Last Edit: May 06, 2017, 06:07:24 PM by SuperFlaminninja³ »

Bowling is not childish at all and a great option.

if you have any common interests, do those. watch a show that you both like or play a video game. if you don't have any common interests... get a new girlfriend.

I would take her to an amusement park
apparently they're not as childish as I thought

skating is fun what a buzzkill. i was gonna recommend going to a bar since its fun to get drunk especially with a girl ;;;) but ur not of age so stuff.
for some stay at home things: its fun to make pizzas together. as in you go to the store and you buy what you want on it and then you make it yourself completely. its great.
or u can just play videogames
otherwise just go skate, bowl, gokart, lasertag, minigolf, whatever

idk though i usually just make a bonfire and serve alcohol

skating is fun what a buzzkill. i was gonna recommend going to a bar since its fun to get drunk especially with a girl ;;;) but ur not of age so stuff.
for some stay at home things: its fun to make pizzas together. as in you go to the store and you buy what you want on it and then you make it yourself completely. its great.
or u can just play videogames
otherwise just go skate, bowl, gokart, lasertag, minigolf, whatever

idk though i usually just make a bonfire and serve alcohol
Im 16 and shes only 17 so neither of us could buy alcohol unless I got my friend to buy it, plus ive never gotten drunk so I don't really want my first time to be with someone I like, because I might do something dumb

Im 16 and shes only 17 so neither of us could buy alcohol unless I got my friend to buy it, plus ive never gotten drunk so I don't really want my first time to be with someone I like, because I might do something dumb
ye i knew that thats why i wrote a few more other things lol

Bowling is not childish at all and a great option.
bowling nor skating is childish, but if she's not into it that's fine. childish is a bad reason to though.

bowling can be really fun, but its probably better as a double-date or with close friends or something. Two people bowling can get awkward/quiet fast if nobody has anything to say/talk about

one thing that is underrated is going out to the local national park or park or hill or mountain or whatever and hike to the top for pictures. can be tiresome but if you have a few hours lined up it can be a really rewarding experience. goes even better with good close friends that both of you would enjoy spending time with, even during a """"date""""

if you both are stay at home types you could try baking stuff together, like diy pizza or mini pies or something. inb4creampiejoke
or go out shopping (if you dont mind and she likes to, or vice versa, or somehow you both like to shop) or to a local cafe for lunch, and bring some sort of word game/conversation to discuss, like a dating truth or dare kind of thing.

for any date idea, if she enjoys a certain kind of game or art talk to her about it, ask her questions and give her an opportunity to talk about it, even if she listens usually. try to be genuinely curious about anything you talk about since sincerity comes off really well.

idk though i usually just make a bonfire and serve alcohol
do you sing campfire tunes too



pin up a ton of ideas on a board, invite your date over, then throw a dart on the board and do whatever the dart lands on

no more decision making

pin up a ton of ideas on a board, invite your date over, then throw a dart on the board and do whatever the dart lands on

no more decision making

and write "love" all over the board

and write "love" all over the board
pin this up on your wall




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one thing that is underrated is going out to the local national park or park or hill or mountain or whatever and hike to the top for pictures. can be tiresome but if you have a few hours lined up it can be a really rewarding experience. goes even better with good close friends that both of you would enjoy spending time with, even during a """"date""""
I'd suggest this.



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i wonder what she's listening to