Cause I'm bad at riddles
"My date is, the second. The second of death.
My goal is to whisper, heard but not understood,
I am the first, second and fifth.
1,1,1 is the time.
Q for an E and G for a N.
If D is my first, then take 8 from that, and you will have the first letter to which you have been asking for"
I'll send a hint in a while as time passes by, though I don't have the answer to it, hopefully we all can come to a reasonable conclusion for an answer.