are you oblivious when it comes to flirting?

[hillkill]

my friend told me many examples of me being really oblivious to flirting.

like when me and a friend were watching a movie together and she laid on my shoulder and ask me if i wanted to share a blanket. i just said "i'm not cold right now thanks". still don't get how this is flirting

was at a party and my friend was getting wasted. she told me she needed to sit down so i sat with her to make sure she was fine. she started leaning into me with her eyes closed and i just thought she was more drunk than i thought. i just said "you should probably stop drinking" and walked away. i told my friend later about this and he said i was a "loving moron"

if you loving like me, just tell me. i'm not a mind reader

anybody here have any oblivious moments with flirting?

[Ad Bot]

[Woof]

The problem is the other way around. Thinking that someone is flirting with you when they're not.

[Dreams_Of_Cheese]

see, i agree with the sentiment, but those examples are really, really obvious dude. i guess the second one is kinda ambiguous, but that first one was a total miss on your part. maybe you left some context out of the first example, but damn.

[hillkill]

see, i agree with the sentiment, but those examples are really, really obvious dude. i guess the second one is kinda ambiguous, but that first one was a total miss on your part. maybe you left some context out of the first example, but damn.

there's no deeper context. we were watching breaking bad on her couch and it happened. still don't see how it's flirting though. i see someone offering a blanket as being generous.

The problem is the other way around. Thinking that someone is flirting with you when they're not.

had this happen many, many times too

[Red Spy]

the only way you couldn't pick up on "do you want to share a blanket" is if you're actually autistic

[hillkill]

the only way you couldn't pick up on "do you want to share a blanket" is if you're actually autistic

explain to me how offering a blanket isn't just a sentimental, platonic thing.

[Rigel]

how old are you, hillkill? Do you not remember the meme that was "netflix and chill"?

[Red Spy]

explain to me how offering a blanket isn't just a sentimental, platonic thing.

how is it

[hillkill]

how old are you, hillkill? Do you not remember the meme that was "netflix and chill"?

18, but a meme's just a meme lol

how is it

house was chilly; she might've been cold but i wasn't. just thought it was being considerate

[Dreams_Of_Cheese]

explain to me how offering a blanket isn't just a sentimental, platonic thing.

you might be oblivious to a few more things than just flirting

[McJob]

explain to me how offering a blanket isn't just a sentimental, platonic thing.

It's not about the blanket you nugget. It's about the fact the other person is offering to get close to you. I really doubt they were saying it in the kind of "you take this corner I'll take that corner" tone.

You probably do have some kind of mental disability that prevents you from picking up on basic social cues, not just flirting.

[Red Spy]

You probably do have some kind of mental disability that prevents you from picking up on basic social cues

man i wonder what that could be 🤔

[The Resonte!]

you might be oblivious to a few more things than just flirting

*snicker*


the first example op was for both of you to snuggle under a blanket under a romantic setting until you both end up sleeping together in hot tantric love

you need to watch more cheesy romance films

[hillkill]

you might be oblivious to a few more things than just flirting

i guess because in hindsight, i still consider it platonic. it was an insignificant moment to me and was brought up when the said person admitted feelings. i think that's how it should be, where someone tells you that they like you and no ambiguous acts of generosity.

man i wonder what that could be 🤔

someone should make a program where you can't type "autism", "autistic", or "handicap". you say it so lightheartedly.

[Rigel]

dude, people trying to get into full body contact like that usually means something more than a friendly snuggle. Hell, even if it is just a friendly snuggle, go for that stuff.

someone should make a program where you can't type "autism", "autistic", or "handicap". you say it so lightheartedly.

he didn't actually type that tho