i'm kind of in the opposite boat right now. i have no attraction to anyone anymore and no libido yet i still loving wank out of boredom.
i say the best ones will come up to you themselves, but experiences may differ. i've found out you get one of two experiences from attractive women: hot with no personality, or hot but bitchy. so don't rush things, act like a proper dude, be yourself and the women will come on their own.