I can't forget about my ex.

[hootaloo]

move on your relationship sounded unhealthy which is unsurprising for a highschool relationship.
you will undoubtedly find someone new, who you actually can be yourself around, and doesnt make you feel bad
im actually surprised that youre the one that got blocked

[Ad Bot]

[Deus Ex]

You'll live, we all do

[The Brighter Dark]

op need to realize he was 14 when this relationship was initialized and that hes not even a year into being a legal adult.

OP ya'll are literally kids just loving around, can you rationally expect an 'intimate' relationship between two kids to last forever?

[thegoodperry]

It's my fault because i typically never vented my frustrations with my ex, but i felt like i couldn't vent my frustrations without her trying to point the finger back on me or getting irrationally upset and not listening to me. She also corrected me a lot and made me feel really low about myself  but there where really nice times when we got along fine and we'd hug or cuddle or fall asleep next to one another, or we'd have really nice times just hanging out somewhere together. I also felt like i couldn't really be myself around her, and i also felt like she didn't care about our relationship sometimes because there was an interval of time where i stopped texting her out of the blue to see how long it would take her to text me and she ignored me for weeks on end until i send her text again and i also felt like she didn't care about our relationship because she would often refuse to do anything i'd like to do (i.e just sit and talk, play a game together, or just even quietly relax and appreciate one another's company, etc.) however we'd always do what she would want to do because she would continuously ask and if we didn't do what she wanted she'd get irritated or angry with me.

edit: With the time period where i stopped texting her, it was because i was getting frustrated with prior events where she would only text me if i texted her first. i didn't expect a text every day, it's just that i felt like she didn't really care whether or not we spoke because i always had to initiate the conversations.

well hugging and cuddling together is basically the hormone part of the relationship, entirely superficial. your actual relationship which was your bond wasn't that mutual. i was initially surprised when you said you'd been in the relationship for 4 years but hearing that you were on and off it actually makes more sense.

there's not much you can do right now to get over stuff besides focus on all the self-respect and love you lost during those 4 years and make it back up. you'll feel better once you do and feel more confident

[captin crunch cereal]

Women are outdated
Buy a FleshLight

[Woof]

fleshlights are made for richards
miss me with that gay stuff

[hootaloo]

Women are outdated
Buy a FleshLight

lmfao i always have the same delivery guy why would they put that on the box

[Shift Kitty]

you don't need to be in a relationship. you want to because you want to feel loved, no?

who loves you more than anyone? yourself. if you don't love yourself, then you need to work on that. trust me, you'll feel more content with yourself, have the confidence to make friends, and appreciate solitude (not being in a relationship)

distract yourself to forget about her. play video games or just about anything that requires focus. pick up a new hobby-- like guitar.

what kind of relationship is based on not seeing each other for weeks?

This is actually some pretty good advice. Building a sense of independence is really important before getting into a serious relationship.

[Mega-Bear]

you don't need to be in a relationship. you want to because you want to feel loved, no?

who loves you more than anyone? yourself. if you don't love yourself, then you need to work on that. trust me, you'll feel more content with yourself, have the confidence to make friends, and appreciate solitude (not being in a relationship)

distract yourself to forget about her. play video games or just about anything that requires focus. pick up a new hobby-- like guitar.

This is solid advice. The more you improve yourself, the easier it will be to handle heartache like this. It will also make you more attractive if you're confident, stable, and able to work through tough times. If you don't love yourself, no one will. stay strong familia