being gay is much better ngl because you keep your richard and you're fighting for people who dont act like mindless tards when encountered with such triggering details as "deadnaming" and "loveual harassment" when they were not born as and will never be a woman that anyone wants to have loveual ties to
also alot more gay people seem to keep it as just a trait of them rather than screaming "MAN IM A TRANSWOMAN! I BLED MY PARENTS OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS FOR GIRL HOROMONES AND THE LOSS OF MY RIFLE IN EXCHANGE FOR THE POSSIBILITY OF BEING PASSED OFF AS A WOMAN"