"we" or "you" don't go anywhere because when you die you lose the very thing that makes you who you are, which is your conscious mind, its memories and its ability to interpret every stimulation it receives as coherent and constant, giving you your sense of "presence". If you happen to believe in an almighty (which is implied and required for any chance of life after death) god, and I do, it's up to him to reconstruct your conscious mind.