to be fair, tony does have a point
"(X) is insecure about people who are disabled, lacks hindsight and is generally known as the worst person ever in history"
"(X) is (Insult that describes people who commit catastrophic mistakes for next to no reason)"
"Oh my god! This insult correlates to (Y) events and thus you are evil and now blocked!"
The optimal solution would have been to ask if he meant what he meant by handicapped. handicapped, which is now pretty commonly used, shouldn't really be dismissed unless this was a professional situation, in which case any insult would have been dismissed and there was no point to make this thread