but did you know that making everyone know you're gay or straight isn't what being flamboyant is? I can imagine you wouldn't like that, I don't either. but that isn't what flamboyance is
Never said that it was.
Flamboyance is such an overrated word. Someone being "flamboyant" is just being their-self. Being flamboyant isn't a bad thing, however being negative towards it, is. If you cannot handle someone being pronounced in their loveuality, therein lies a personal problem.
flam·boy·ant1
flamˈboiənt/
adjective
adjective: flamboyant
1.
(of a person or their behavior) tending to attract attention because of their exuberance, confidence, and stylishness.
The confidence and exuberance part is spot on. Being pronounced in your loveuality and throwing it in people's faces is entirely different. You don't seem to understand that for some reason. It's not like everyone is out to get you or even hates you cause you're gay(biloveual?). It's quite literally the fact that they are, and people will commonly be, disgusted with the way you act and talk. You put physical effort into doing this. It's not like you're just accidentally saying wrong things or occasionally going overboard but you literally take time to use reaction images and go in depth.
Being flamboyant normally is a bad thing and being negative is it is a okay response. Being flamboyant and disregarding how it makes other people feel isn't something people will react positively about so I don't know what you were getting at with that.
This whole "family values" cover/shield or whatever you want to call it. It's bullstuff. I've got nothing against gay people, I know and have been friends with them and they don't act this way or I wouldn't be their friend. Being gay doesn't make you weird or creepy but pushing it on other people sure does.
is this seriously the 8th time there's an argument in this thread because emo freak is being (for lack of a better word) a hebephile?
It's kind of silly this argument has to be made this many times really. You'd think it would've been resolved by now. I mean he did get better about what he posts, I'll give him that. But he still has a disregard for others and I don't think he stopped posting those odd pictures of himself for any other reason than fear of being banned.