I know how it feels, Didn't loose a Close family member. But my Grandfather.
I never realy knew him, and after it my Grandma tried to give away stuff that was for my father (So stated in his Will) and we still don't have that stuff.
I can move on, by thinking that, Hey, they were good people, but their mindset will live on, and they aren't the last ones.
I'm sorry that it happened man, I know how hard it is..