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Hi i need soruise advice.My closest grandpa might die and i cant hold back tears

I myself haven't had any reliatives diead-yet-so I don't think this will help much.

Be sure to tell him that you love him dearly, and remember that he will be in a much better place. No stress, no bills, just eternal life with God. Depending on your religion, of course. =/

EDIT: Letting out your tears is good for your health. So is laughing. Always try to push bad thigns aside and think of the positives(^).
« Last Edit: March 19, 2009, 07:43:30 PM by fierscream »

Spend some time with him, go for walks and take photos for the sweat memorys, and tell him that you love him... You know? Spend time together, if he is in a hospital then visit him often.

 and don't be sad, you will see him again after a while.
But if he survives then still hang out with him.



Death is just the beggining of an adventure.
« Last Edit: March 19, 2009, 07:53:55 PM by Riot »

Advice:
Don't post your tragedies here.

Seriously, I'm not trying to be mean, but please. Just don't.

Stay by him, it's better if he's not alone. It also helps if he's not depressed, because depression just makes it worse and he has a greater chance of dying if he's depressed. Make sure he's always happy and treat him well. He'll get better.

You know i think my grandpa might be dying. But then I'll have no grandparents D:

My grandma is very sick. Will probably die in a month or so :(

Damn staff infection in her blood.

If you want to cry, do it. We will make fun of you, but don't let it stop you.

Go cry alone somewhere or cry so quietly no one can hear you. You'll feel better.

I'll admit that I balled my eyes out when I had to be a paulbearer at my Grandpa's funeral. Thing is that I wasn't sad or depressed. I was actually happy because the poor guy finally had an end to the suffering he was going through. I still hear him singing in my dreams now and then, so even if it's all just a part of my mind missing him, I still feel much calmer after waking from those dreams.

Stick it in [his]her pooper.

Wow, I never thought of that!

Hi i need soruise advice.My closest grandpa might die and i cant hold back tears
It's not something that anyone can simply give good advice for.  All I can say is that it won't be easy.  But at the very least, say what you need to say to him.  Fact is death is a natural part of life.  When it happens, you need to find your own way to get through it.

I feel sad for you, but, blocklanders will not care. The people who post here will just make you more sad. I implore you to lock this.

Grampa is going to a better place, the disco dancing heaven ball.