here's a copy of my log
and so many add-ons i cant tell you the names
You have too many bad add-ons that are broken, or are packaged incorrectly. I suggest you reinstall without saving your add-ons, and this time use RTB with the Mod Manager to make sure you have good add-ons. Also, in the first post, Space Guy lists add-ons that are incompatible with the TDM mod, so make sure you disable all those.
Would you want to have it automatically select varying classes, or would the players select what class and items they wanted? OR have an option for both?
The first option. Choosing what items you want is too much work, and plus the classes are there for a reason.