"Your time is over, BL_ID {i forgot to make my auto script work lol}" is my only guess.
Anyway, try playing on the more decent servers. In my own, if I think somebody is new to the game, I'll usually try and help in any way I can.
Read the chat in servers (if they don't ban you instantly on connecting) and make sure you don't annoy people if you're building in the 'wrong' place for an RPG server, placing item and vehicle spawns randomly or getting in their way.