Lol. Anyway yeah, I think the whole flamboyant gay thing is just to be different and to stand out. I'm glad i'm not one of those types - I was totally one of the "Oh wow, I would never have guessed" types which is great. Of course they're nice but it's just very exhausting to be with them.
Out of the all the gay people I know, Ephi is truly my favorite. You don't make a big scene about it, and you don't advertise your loveuality. You are just you and you like other men. And I respect that. Not to mention you're just a nice guy.
The gay people that I do know are all those flamboyant types.