Basically, Drama is not Discussion.
Flaming happens here, so construct your arguments with the care of Gandhi if you don't want to get burned, and even then guard yourself.
don't always be nice as such, but don't be a complete handicap.
Ordering people around always fails. Sorry.
I have been a complete loving starfish
You haven't to that extent, people rarely do, however this board is a mean one, and so everyone is a target.
rarely
Take some time to see exactly what posts succeed here, perhaps.
People start bullstuff arguments all over the place.
And get flamed more as a result. It resolves itself.