Comr4de's Girl problems.

[comr4de]

Preface: I've known this girl for four years, and I've loved her for the last six months. I told her two months ago, and we've been talking.
During class, we're IM'ing, and this happens:

Comr4de: hey you didnt answer my text from last night
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: Which?
Comr4de:how do you feell about me
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: ?
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: I'm not sure. I'm not really ready for a relationship right now. To be honest, I'm working hard at trying to recover from a traumatic relationship that went on this summer.
Comr4de:i see
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: But - you're a unique person, John. I wouldn't let go of those qualities.
Comr4de::,(
Comr4de:thanks
Comr4de::3
I'm not saying I hate you or anything, or turning you down completely.
Comr4de: i see
Comr4de:but i mean, two years...
Comr4de:  D;
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: Yes, I know. But I never knew.
Comr4de:  i shoulda told joo
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: My best friend and boyfriend died this summer.
Comr4de:  wut
Comr4de: :U
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: So - I hope you can understand.
Comr4de:  yeah
Comr4de:  umm
Comr4de:  wow
Comr4de:  uhhh
Comr4de:  jeez

Comr4de:  i feel really awkward now
Comr4de: :U
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: Haha.. It's kay.
Comr4de:  k...
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: So, it's not like I don't have feelings for you. But I also feel somewhat disloyal to him. Even though he's dead.
Comr4de:  yeah

Comr4de:  i understand
Comr4de:  completely, i really do
Comr4de:  that sucks
Comr4de:  how did it happen
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: Yeah, it does 
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: He had cancer for years but never told me about it.
Comr4de: :U
Comr4de:  wow
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: Until around January of this year.
Comr4de:  oh wow
Comr4de:  i'm... Really sorry
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: It's okay. It's just really hard to recover from the death of someone like that.
Comr4de:  yeah
Comr4de:  i know what you mean
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: So, I'm sorry.
Comr4de:  no
Comr4de:  it's alright
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: Bleh, I'm all sad now. Lol. And we have like an hour and a half left of school  x]
Comr4de:  its gonna be okay?
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: Well technically, my emotional state is not okay. But I'll survive of course, and that's what matters.
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: Technically, of course.

Comr4de:  lean on me.
Comr4de:  when yourrrre not strooong
Comr4de:  and ill be your friend
Comr4de:  I'll help you caaaarrrrrrry oooooon
Comr4de: :3
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: Hahaha x]
Comr4de:  but srsly
Comr4de:  if you need a shoulder to cry on....
Comr4de:  hai.
Girlwhosenameyou'renotgonnaget: Thanks, John

Am i doing it right?

Fakeedit: Now she randomly feels all suicidal. What do I do?
Discuss.

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[Inv3rted]

._.

I think she would have noticed if he had chemotherapy, unless it was diagnosed terminal.

Poor guy. :c

[Muzzles56]

Talk her out of Self Delete
You'll be a heroooo...

[comr4de]

Yeah, that's the point. He didn't get chemo, until near the end. Then he died. And it takes all i can say to keep her from going ctrl-k almost all the freaking time.

Talk her out of Self Delete
You'll be a heroooo...

Whaddya think I've been doing?

[Inv3rted]

Talk her out of Self Delete
She'll be an heroooo...

fixed

[comr4de]

fixed

Wat.

[Muzzles56]

fixed

Lol'd

[Paw]

my mom says i dont understand women.

[comr4de]

my mom says i dont understand women.

I find it hard too.

[Pimpin]

why do i not believe her?

[Muzzles56]

why do i not believe her?

I thought the exact same thing myself...

[Xoax]

I almost posted the pictures of your girlfriend from that one topic but I'm not mean enough to do it. :(

[Muzzles56]

I almost posted the pictures of your girlfriend from that one topic but I'm not mean enough to do it. :(

Do it :D
No, dont really

[oromis]

That conversation looks ugly. she says technically like twice. in a row. and you said caaaarrrrryyy oooonnn like you were singing via IM.

And of course we can't learn her name, because obviously we will stalk every *firstname* we know until we figure out who it is. I won't use my poorly spent time on that.

[n0cturni]

I think she's being too dramatic.

And no, when I say this I don't mean she can't have any sympathy whatsoever.